NITTY-GRITTY REASONS
by Jim Rohn (excerpted from the book Seven Strategies for Wealth and
Happiness)
Wouldn't it be wonderful to be motivated to achievement by such a
lofty goal as benevolence? I must confess, however, that in the
early years of my struggle to succeed, my motivation was a lot more
down-to-earth. My reason for succeeding was more basic. In fact, it
fell into the category of what I like to call "nitty-gritty
reasons." A nitty-gritty reason is the kind that any one of us can
have -- at any time, on any day -- and it can cause our lives to
change. Let me tell you what happened to me . . .
Shortly before I met Mr. Shoaff, I was lounging at home one day when
I heard a knock at the door. It was a timid, hesitant knock. When I
opened the door I looked down to see a pair of big brown eyes
staring up at me. There stood a frail little girl of about ten. She
told me, with all the courage and determination her little heart
could muster, that she was selling Girl Scout cookies. It was a
masterful presentation -- several flavours, a special deal, and only
two dollars per box. How could anyone refuse? Finally, with a big
smile and ever-so politely, she asked me to buy. And I wanted to.
Oh, how I wanted to!
Except for one thing. I didn't have two dollars! Boy, was I
embarrassed! Here I was -- a father, had been to college, was
gainfully employed -- and yet I didn't have two dollars to my name.
Naturally I couldn't tell this to the little girl with the big brown
eyes. So I did the next best thing. I lied to her. I said, "Thanks,
but I've already bought Girl Scout cookies this year. And I've still
got plenty stacked in the house."
Now that simply wasn't true. But it was the only thing I could think
of to get me off the hook. And it did. The little girl said, "That's
okay, sir. Thank you very much." And with that she turned around and
went on her way.
I stared after her for what seemed like a very long time. Finally, I
closed the door behind me and, leaning my back to it, cried out, "I
don't want to live like this anymore. I've had it with being broke,
and I've had it with lying. I'll never be embarrassed again by not
having any money in my pocket." That day I promised myself to earn
enough to always have several hundred dollars in my pocket at all
times.
This is what I mean by a nitty-gritty reason. It may not win me any
prize for greatness, but it was enough to have a permanent effect on
the rest of my life.
My Girl-Scout-cookie story does have a happy ending. Several years
later, as I was walking out of my bank where I had just made a hefty
deposit and was crossing the street to get into my car, I saw two
little girls who were selling candy for some girls' Organisation.
One of them approached me, saying, "Mister, would you like to buy
some candy?"
"I probably would," I said playfully. "What kind of candy do you
have?" "It's almond roca." "Almond roca. That's my favourite. How
much is it?" "It's only two dollars." Two
dollars. It couldn't be! I was excited. "How many boxes of candy
have you got?" "I've got five."
Looking at her friend, I said, "And how many boxes do you have
left?"
"I've got four." "That's nine. Okay, I'll take them all."
At this, both girls' mouths fell open as they exclaimed in unison,
"Really?"
"Sure," I said. "I've got some friends that I'll pass some around
to."
Excitedly, they scurried to stack all the boxes together. I reached
into my pocket and gave them eighteen dollars. As I was about to
leave, the boxes tucked under my arm, one of the girls looked up and
said, "Mister, you're really something!" How about that! Can you
imagine spending only eighteen dollars and having someone look you
in the face and say, "You're really something!"
Now you know why I always carry a few hundred dollars on me. I'm not
about to miss chances like that ever again.
And to think it all resulted from my own embarrassment, that when
properly channeled, acted as a powerful Motivator to help me
achieve.
How about you? What nitty-gritty reasons do you have waiting to
challenging and provoke you into change for the better? Look for
them, they are there. Sometimes it can be as simple as a brown eyed
girl selling Girl Scott cookies.
To Your Success,
Jim Rohn